saguaro
Senior Member

Agree that pressure has to be maintained until this is done. Contacting the attorney is still on the table, but for now, I am staying my hand...

@catherine, I remember you talking about your BIL. It's too bad that he caved and came back, it was not good for him or your MIL even she didn't see...

@Simplemind, and I could use a drink after this, lol. Johnny Depp'ing it, I love it and exactly describes me and DH. We have no kids and a similar...

First off @SimpleMind, thanks for weighing in, you certainly had a challenging situation. To answer some questions, as far as the trust involving...

Both YS and I think there's some mental / emotional issues at play. She was on track for the first several months getting various estate issues...

Thanks, Steve. YS is unpacking a lot of emotional stuff from over the last 20 years, it's not just all the things that happened recently. She...

Understand your conflicting feelings it makes total sense. Hopefully this experience will serve as a reality check for him. Perhaps seeing his...

Thanks all. @SteveinMN and @TeacherTerry, yes, MS is being irrational, and honestly both YS and I think she has some serious issues herself. ...

@iris illies, the value of the house and property is considerable enough about 300K so worth hanging in there for. The remainder of the retirement...

I couldn't ask anyone to directly intervene as that would send MS over the edge, aka betrayal and making her look bad just like the letter. She's...