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    You have to WANT to stop saying stupid things,...

    You have to WANT to stop saying stupid things, unfortunately I was kinda proud of some of the things I said. Didn't help, but counselor helped me see I was more hurting myself. The inner punk kid...
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    feeling a bit better

    Maybe it is increasing some medication, (anxiety meds really are helpful, I take a tiny dose before all of my meetings with supervisor so I can stop saying stupid things), maybe it is that he appears...
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    It is 10 years of being on a qualifying plan,...

    It is 10 years of being on a qualifying plan, turning in forgiveness paperwork, and paying on time for the entire 10 years. So I had 3 years in the program when my payments went from $30 a month to...
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    not one pound, sigh

    A week without sugar and at the same weight, 6 lbs heavier than the beginning of summer. I even did almost 20K steps yesterday.

    Ah well, that wasn't the only reason to do this.
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    Not really as far as I can tell. They are not...

    Not really as far as I can tell. They are not included in a bankruptcy for example so sooner or later you just have to pay them,
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    Sounds great! I took home ec and shop, actually...

    Sounds great! I took home ec and shop, actually most everyone had the option to take both. I really loved it, my mom had some candle holders for years.

    A folding table sounds like an awesome...
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    Student loans don't care about vows of poverty

    Student loans don't care about vows of poverty
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    I won't stay in my apartment with a roommate. I...

    I won't stay in my apartment with a roommate. I would rather rent from someone, then I am not worried about covering the rent and my apartment is not great for sharing. My bedroom has actually been a...
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    meeting a potential roommate today

    We are meeting for coffee, she is a 40 yo woman who wants to also share a place and pay off student loans. Quiet, meditator, as far as I know. In any case it will be good to get some progress in one...
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    Yppej what nuns are those? I know nuns in the...

    Yppej what nuns are those? I know nuns in the Thervadan traditioan and they have a lot of rules. It is begging bowls at the farmer's market really. There are a lot of adaptations so that they don't...
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    Haha, good idea actually. I am unvoluntarily...

    Haha, good idea actually. I am unvoluntarily celibate anyway! I have considered that or I would love to be a Buddhist Chaplain if money wasn't a big issue. Nuns however are not as well supported as...
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    He nit picks 3 out of 4 of us as far as I can...

    He nit picks 3 out of 4 of us as far as I can tell. But I do feel treated unfairly in some pretty concrete ways. This was just a total nit pick but I kept my cool, didn't even take anxiety meds.
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    Jane, I am also thinking of that. In fact my bff...

    Jane, I am also thinking of that. In fact my bff who lives in Salt Lake got into that through mortgage loan default work. They paid for her paralegal training and she really likes it. I have even...
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    Yes Jane, I did a great weekend of training on...

    Yes Jane, I did a great weekend of training on facilitation around conflict. Very exciting and exhausting work.

    What I can tell is many mediators have a law background and do mediation as an...
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    Oh how i wish this had been available for...

    Oh how i wish this had been available for different times in my life. I used to go to the grocery at 3 am, seriously. One car, 2 small children, and a 24 hour store.

    Sounds like a great thing to...
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    Good to know the inside story of other careers. I...

    Good to know the inside story of other careers. I know there is a range of experience but I also see the movement to online everything.

    About the 'hide your light', I have a lot of self judging...
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    Thank you, that means a lot. I need to hear that,...

    Thank you, that means a lot. I need to hear that,

    It helps that at least 3 of my colleagues are leaving or have left. General consensus is stress level and lack of support. So the department can...
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    I have some negative reactions myself being more...

    I have some negative reactions myself being more and more on the inside and meeting more Sri Lankan families. You can make any religion beneficial to ourselves and not necessarily great as an...
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    Thanks all, maybe too soon as I am hearing. I am...

    Thanks all, maybe too soon as I am hearing. I am feeling some middle age regret, mid life crisis with some empty nest. But part of me also misses the math. I left math and science because I couldn't...
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    I may be done with this field of work

    I am close to being simply done with this work. I liked my jobs in banking a lot, and it wouldn't pay well to start with but maybe it is just time to change. Something to explore at least. Many...
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    HI Catherine, I agree with trigger, I know people...

    HI Catherine, I agree with trigger, I know people who have some very real PTSD and hearing that other people are triggered all the time is basically a pain and not being aware of more serous...
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    I also really like the team spirit of your community helping you dress up for the interview. They are really stressful huh! I am almost certain I didn't get the job I really wanted, but teaching the...
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    Is Buddhism a trigger for anyone?

    The context is that I am at a connection through conflict weekend training, very good program that has worked in the Middle East and has a branch here working with primarily young women in...
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    sitting with unknown

    I realized I am sitting with so much unknown right now. I am looking to change jobs but I don't have one right now. I am ending my lease in just over a month, not sure where I am going to live. My...
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    Starting day 4, yesterday was. Harder, didnt eat...

    Starting day 4, yesterday was. Harder, didnt eat enough dinner and woke up hungry in the middle of the night. There is no sugar in the house to eat anyway.

    I am at a conference on connection...
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