We tried counseling several times in the past w/ mediocre results... the one thing that really helped us bury the hatchets and come back together was going through the Dave Ramsey Financial Peace...
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We tried counseling several times in the past w/ mediocre results... the one thing that really helped us bury the hatchets and come back together was going through the Dave Ramsey Financial Peace...
I get what you are saying but I was in the weeds a few years back about communication... I didn't know how and *they* did. I felt out *manned* and out gunned so I shut up and ran for cover. There's a...
You might try a product called Feliway... it plugs into an outlet like one of those airfreshners and is supposed to emit a "everything's okay" cat pheremone. It is pricey.
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On our primitive roles vs. modern/cultural expectations.... In many cases I prefer the later but here it takes biology many generations for a species to "shed" less adaptive traits and for more...
First, thanks Anne, that was great. Now it's time for a look-see at the husband store...
A brand new store has just opened in New York City that sells Husbands.
When women go to choose a...
This is hilarious! I told my wife and she laughed out loud too!
LOL... I've seen this though w/ my Mom wanting to divorce my dad once a month and to a lesser degree w/ my wife. My wife has been helped very much by the "right" birth control for her and an AD too. ...
Alright, so I brought up the sex connection. I think, from my personal experience, it's a stage that some couples go through. I think it's closely related to the conversational "trap" someone else...
I as a dude will say some things here. First, if you aren't having sex with us as much as we want to open up we'll nod our heads and smile in a way that doesn't imply agreement or dissent.... it's a...
Wow. My home is my sanctuary. My first reaction is along the lines of "liquid ass" or even more illegal ideas. I would certainly think of many ways to set them up and want to involve all the...
Psychiatric drugs keep me alive and enable me to function well. There is no conspiracy, unless I'm off my meds.
Yeah, stop torturing yourself with "what if's" and second guessing. Go find out!
FYI, after what you've said here I'd be pretty "blunt" or straight forward about it... Like, "Hey, I like you, you...
Okay, I'll chime in here. I am 43 and was diagnosed as bipolar about a year ago. I've led an interesting life of ups and downs and will continue to do so, only now with a little bit better...
If it works for you why change? Our system is a tad goofy and gets goofier if we drift off plan.
I still want to make it through Pynchon's Gravity's Rainbow. I'm a glutton for punishment. And, I will never ever eat a banana pancake.
I have a copy, I love all of that and even tho I have left the workaday world my rocks are still here. More laundry soap to make, dishes to do. I sing and whistle that rock up the hill now. Let's...
The only meaning life has to me is the meaning I bring to the party. That's what gets me up in the morning. I am, like a moth to a flame, drawn towards those "big deal" splashes in the pool of life....
so far I put a check mark next to things I take action on, any action at all. I put an A w/ a circle if I've found an answer to something. A V, for victory in a circle if I complete something. An S...
So recently I made two small changes to running my world that are making a huge difference. First, I started a "journal" where everyday I do a goal setting brainstorm session. I try to keep true to...
When I've been working hard for days and I take a break in the jaccuzi. It takes me awhile to slow down. I'll go through all the hot water and stay put until the water heater catches up and I can...
Corn, peas, beans, potatoes, broccoli, tomatoes, mustard, garlic, peaches coming in on the tree too... oh, and raspberries.
I read about this practice in the book Food Not Lawns awhile ago... very inspiring. Our farmer's market doesn't start until July... can't wait!
Drat. A setback. Some council members are too caught up in the history as a farming town and how "we're a city now" to realize the cachet that the growing hobby of backyard chickens has. Heck, the...
I have panic attacks now and then and am convinced that I'm dying and it's a horrible feeling. Philosophically, I don't mind the idea of being dead at all. Pain or trauma or other things freak me...