I've had a few cycles of indebtedness. I'm wondering what karma am I working off here?? I know I am responsible for the debt, and I accept that. But I truly am, at my core, a simple liver. I always have been.. I was happy being a companion for my greataunt as a teen when my friends were getting jobs so they could buy cool clothes (I made my own). I cried when my mother bought a second TV. All of my furniture is second hand (except for a first-hand couch that my MIL bought us for our 25th wedding anniversary 12 years ago).
So I constantly ask, what's a nice girl like me doing in a place like this?
I managed to pay off $120,000 worth of debt a couple of years ago.. with the help of Dave Ramsey. And then we inherited a house in the midst of the housing crisis. For that reason (and a few others), I have regenerated that debt. Yes, I would have done things differently if I could, like letting that darned house go to foreclosure.
Truly, I need to sell my own house, but I get resistance from DH. I may veto his decision at some point. My life is worth more than a house.
So, I am still in debt, and as always, I'm scrambling to find my way out. Thanks for the inspiration.