So, unbelievably, for 36 years, we have had the same united Christmas with the kids (I posted some of our traditions on the Traditions thread).
This year, a) we're going up to VT to be with our 3 VT kids but b) my oldest, now-married-and-a-father son will not be coming. My BIL also refuses to make the 7 hour trip to VT.
So, it's likely that no one will be in our house all holiday season--when we see my married son, we'll most likely go to their house.
I'm torn about doing a full-blown Christmas decoration of the house, as I usually do. While it's a lot of work, it cheers me up, so I'm thinking of just cutting back on it a little. I'm sad enough that this will be the very first Christmas that we won't have any time together as a full-blown family, and I'm afraid if I don't do some decorating, it will be very depressing for me.
What would you do?