If you're married or in a permanent partnership, do you wear a ring? I just read someone's comment that they & spouse have rings but don't like to wear them. DH and I are much the same, we have matching ornate gold bands but it's catch as catch can. Sort of an inside joke; we have different last names, so if one of us puts on our ring when we go out and the other doesn't, it looks sort of illicit. We'll ask, "are you married?" and hold up our hands.