Have you ever come to a place in your life where you just feel fine with yourself, warts and all? I'm not as thin as I'm told I should be, but I'm not in any ill health, I feel fine, and I'm not willing to live on the strict diet that I would need to be on for the rest of my life. My house is reasonably clean and orderly, it isn't decorated to a BHG standard but the decor is pretty much reflective of the life I've had and I am not willing to put the time, effort, or money into making it anything else. I'm naturally rather frugal and am completely debt free but I'm not black-belt frugal and am not willing to save money just to save money. In other words, I see everyone making self improvement resolutions, and I just can't muster up any real enthusiasm for them. I have projects that I want to do: paint the interior of the house this year, go on some birding trips, etc. But mostly, there' are reasons for my life choices and I think I'm pretty much OK.