Originally Posted by
rodeosweetheart
My in-laws tried to get my husband to pay a thousand dollars a month (he is one of 7 kids) to keep my fil in a nursing home when his wife (husband's stepmother) announced that they were "broke", even though his pension was still coming and was more than what my husband makes a month. I said if he went along with that, we would be getting divorced. They had traveled constantly, golfed, remodeled their house extensively, and in general lived at a much higher level than we do. When my fil died, my step-mother-in law took three of four months at a spiritual retreat center, retreating. She is still young enough to get a job (she is much younger than her husband) but is now living on insurance payout, I guess.
She has been in much better health than I for the last 15 years, but would not work. They also made more money than we did. A weird situation, most distressing.