Well not really unwanted but un-needed and a bit awkward.
This next weekend we are having a bbq/party that some people may give gifts for but we never do. Still some people always show up with a gift no matter what we say. I know that their hearts are in the right place but it makes for an awkward moment for us and for anyone else who came without gifts, which is most of the guests.
Usually I try to open it quickly, thank them then move on but again, it's awkward for our other guests. I wonder if there is a better way to handle it? Acknowledge the gift and giver without making anyone else feel bad for not bringing anything, which we never want them to do in the first place.
Anyone have a good way to handle this?