My daughter was left a large amount of money in trust by her grandmother. We were unaware of this until recently. She comes into the money, no strings attached when she is 21.
DD is a very sensible and responsible kid, but this seems like too much for someone so young. There is no way, legally, that we can put any restrictions on it.
DD is aware that her grandparents have set up a college fund for her, but she works - she will be baby sitting and working as a camp counselor this summer - for her spending money.
We haven't told her about this, and the whole thing is uncomfortable. I don't want to say the exact amount, but it's enough to get into a great deal of trouble.
Our plan is to take her to a financial planner sometime before she has access to the trust. They can tell her the best way to invest it - I hope.
We haven't told her because we want her to be planning for a productive and independent life. Knowing you will need to support yourself is a great motivator. I'm not sure how she will respond to knowing that she actually won't have to work (if she doesn't blow the money.)
What would you do in this situation? She'll be 21 in 4 years.
Thank you!