What is your favorite hobby?
I used to enjoy reading and embroidery but my eyes can't do it as much now.
But, I found a new hobby in 2010 when the federal census was going on.
It is genealogy/family history, and I will brag and say I am awesome at it!
No one had been able to trace my family trees because the volunteers had the names listed wrong in the basic typed systems.
So, over 6 years, I have traced by looking for first names, ages, locations and such.
I have found stuff that no one else could find.
However, I still have about 3 huge brick walls (that is what genealogists call it we can't find anything more).
Some things that I have learned is that a lot what we have been told about marriages in the past were lies.
People did get divorced in the 1800s (and sometimes before that), especially after the American Civil War because men often got involved with new women in other states while fighting.
Bigamy was not illegal until 1861 because the government was worried about the influence of the Latter Day Saints. So, Abraham Lincoln signed a law making it illegal. However, men were married to several wives and they had kids by those women (we are talking men who were not Latter Day Saints). They had a choice to divorce one or more wives or to break the law. Also, it takes a long time for the news about bigamy being illegal to the backwoods of nowhere so a lot of men kept doing it.
Girls did have babies out-of-wedlock and sometimes there are records of it happening (1500s through 1800s). Women could file a complaint against a man and it was called a b------- bond to collect payment. I am not going to write the word because I find the word despicable. Back when I was a kid, I was told that this never happened.
Many families (or single people) took in orphaned children but there are no records for most of these. Sometimes parents died or just walked off and left a bunch of kids in a cabin alone. All children were considered workers, so boys were desired to do the farm chores. I have noticed that widowed couples or women tended to adopt girls (probably to have someone take care of them in their old age.) If you wanted an orphan, then there wasn't a lot of paperwork to do because no one worried about it.
A large percentage of the population died of consumption/tuberculosis, and many people thought it was an STD similar to syphylis. (people also died from that).
I have notebooks filled with information but can't do on-site research to fill in the missing pieces of the puzzle.
It is weird though because sometimes someone will find new information to help fill in the information and that just leads to more questions.
So, what is your favorite hobby?