so, as I'm working on balance in my life and order in my environment, and better lifestyle choices, I'm starting to talk back to that voice in my head. Even retraining it.
when I catch myself dragging out to the barn earlier or later than I would like and start to think "I'm so tired" instead I think ",walk a little faster. It's good exercise and you'll feel awake/be done sooner."
when the voice starts to say "this place is a disaster." I say "clean up one thing."
and when the voice tells me I'm fat, I remind it that I'm eating better and I've lost seven pounds.
and instead of make my to do lists and crossing them off and throwing them out, I've been writing down things I actually do in a notebook, so I don't get to the end of the day and feel like I haven't done anything. I can look at my page and say "I vacuumed the rug. I made desserts for the week, I made time for pottery. I ran the dishwasher three times and look how good the kitchen looks!"
maybe I'll even turn the voice into an optimist. For now, I just want it to stop being so noisy.