I've been helping a casual friend get ready to move two times in the past month and only yesterday did I get a complete picture of how much of a hoarder (and procrastinator) she truly is. She has known she's had to move for at least four months now and is now surprised at how much she needs to get done to be out by Friday (tomorrow). She truly has no capacity to see what a bind she has put herself in. I was helping her yesterday and the chaos of stuff to be packed/tossed/stored is pretty bad. When I went into the bedroom to take care of it I was very saddened to see all the her clothes in heaps on the floor of the closet in drifts, and on the floor of the bedroom mixed in with dust bunnies, dirt and other detritus; a virtual pigsty. She has horrible asthma and psoriatic arthritis and the conditions in which she has been living are kind of sad.
The rest of her house/gallery was a chaotic mess; she was just throwing stuff willy-nilly into boxes to be put into storage. Then during this all this, it was
suddenly time to go through drifts of papers and unopened mail that had been sitting around for several years...
That being said, people never cease to amaze me. I was proud of myself for keeping my boundaries and not taking on more physical work than I can handle these days. I told her I could work from 10-2 on Wednesday but was busy Thursday and Friday and wouldn't be able to help. And I got $50 out of it.