Originally Posted by
Ultralight
1. Dating women way too young for them. If you are 50, then 45 to 55 is pretty reasonable. Not 20!
2. Not focusing on a woman with real potential. Instead they think: "Oh, oh! That one over there might be even better than the one I am talking to now!" And they bounce around and end up leaving empty handed.
3. Moving too dang fast! Spend more time on getting to know the woman, keep in frequent contact after you leave, go back again to visit for longer, etc. Take it a little slower.
4. Dating a woman who is way out of the guy's league. If you are a fat guy with a boring personality and not much money then don't think you are gonna be crushin' it with smokin' hot women who look like models or pop singers. Be realistic. Like, I would say I am roughly a "5" on the 1-10 attractiveness scale. So I would not go to Thailand and try to get hooked up with an 8 or 9. I would go for a woman who is in my league. Most guys go over there trying to pick up a model.