A little more detail on this story would be helpful.
But... here is the deal with me: I clean up after myself (not that there is much to clean). I do my own dang laundry. I work for my own unremarkable living. I pay my bills. I take care of Harlan -- walk him, feed him, take him to the vet, etc. I am not looking for a servant, I am looking for a partner in life -- someone whose quirks compliment my own.
Not everyone in developing countries is being trafficked. This is some kind of paranoia. I know that human trafficking is a real thing.
But most people in the third-world are just working folks, people with fairly regular aspirations, people with their own ideas and goals and plans and values.
I studied abroad in Costa Rica in college. I lived with a Spanish speaking family. Hablo un poco de Espanol.
Eu falo um poc do Portugues tambem.
But really, I only know English. I'd be willing to learn whatever language my potential partner spoke. That could be a good bonding experience and be fun too.
Why not go to something like this (domestic, but still you'd be meeting people from diff parts of the country):
https://www.atheists.org/eclipse
looks fun!
Well, it's all the problems you've been talking about......your unhappiness. I wasn't being insulting, if that's how you took it. Talking to a therapist can be very enlightening, if we seem to be stuck in certain patterns of behavior that don't lead to a bit of happiness and don't seem to be working for us.
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