I met a gentleman from Texas online, he's 56, retired, well-groomed, funny and respectful. But he's pushing to come up here (I'm in NY) the weekend after this one. I would have him get a car from the airport and get a hotel and then meet him for dinner driving my own car there. Even with those safeguards, I just don't know. I do not want to feel like I have to be intimate with him because he flew here. Has anyone dealt with situations like this?