.. nowhere else to go, and need advice quickly.
I've been seeing the light at the end of the tunnel work-wise, and was planning on driving my DD back up to VT (she had work in NYC this week) and then spending 2-3 days up in VT and doing some reconnaissance for future housing opportunities. Also, my son is a featured musician at a big annual music festival and he plays tomorrow at 2:00.
It's a nasty day here, so I'm even more committed to driving DD upstate for her own safety.
The monkey wrench is.. My grandson is being born today!!! My DIL went to the hospital today and expects the baby to be born in a few hours.
DH, my Vermont DD and my VT musician son are putting on the full court press for still going up to VT and "meeting" the baby early next week. My DIL is definitely the introvert type and doesn't like a lot of company. BUT what message does that send? (first of all, of COURSE I want to meet GS ASAP--this is just very bad timing).
I feel my new dad son would be really hurt if I chose to go to VT instead of meeting his new son this weekend. OTOH, my DD needs our help, and my musician son has already told his new girlfriend she gets to meet us this weekend, plus we get to see his show.
What would you do????