OP, it sounds as though you have defined practical boundaries that are quite reasonable.Good for you! It is amazing how many senior citizens grapple with their elderly parents over Stuff. Life is too short, just wait for the oldsters to die and then chuck it all. Although it sounds as though you will have a battle with your sis. Well, if she wants to spend 2 years touchdown ng and fussing ver every object, let her. My guess is that your sib will want the estate settled quickly and sister-who-wants yes no and maybe piles wont be respected.