Bumping for an update again. Now it's Fall when sister said she would get a move on doing the estate sale and still no action taken as far as I know. I say "as far as I know" because sister is not communicating that much with me in spite of my reaching out to her and she is pretty much ignoring my out-of-state sister due to an issue (personal, nothing to do with estate) between them that I am staying out of. So the house is still sitting empty though she might be proceeding with her "house fixes" not advising either of us because she knows we will disagree. Well, she would be right about how we feel about the fixes if that's the case.
At this point, my stance is that she has a plan that she is actively executing (and communicates) and then we will have a discussion on how I can help her. Already, several "plans" have been abandoned because she constantly changes her mind, which has wasted a lot of mine and out of state sister's time.
I pretty much earmarked time to help sister this year but going forward, I think my time is going to be a lot more limited. I am pretty frustrated and sad 1) because this weekend marks one year since Dad passed and 2) nothing substantial has happened with the house. I honestly thought we would at least have the house cleaned out and on the market by now. I wouldn't have been concerned if no sale yet, just that having it ready for sale would have been progress all things considered.
I am getting contacted by family members inquiring about items they would like. A lot of the stuff belonged to our grandparents, and they would like grandma and grandpa's photo albums or grandpa's clock or the Name a Star star chart showing the star named after Grandma. Stuff like that, nothing that's greedy. And they report they have reached out to sister about genuinely wanting these things as momentoes and are getting put off or not getting responses.