Does anyone else find that this seems to be a growing mindset these days?
Does anyone else find that this seems to be a growing mindset these days?
There used to be more "reins" holding people back from saying or doing stupid (or insert your own word) stuff today. Sometimes it was shame, or reputation or such. So many don't understand or were never taught the Golden Rule or don't believe they will ever get caught (think of Maddoff or Enron).
Wish some people would follow the rule of not saying something they would not want said to their teenagers in the same tone of voice.
Well, sometimes, we cannot see what we do as wrong but when seeing others do it, it is clearly wrong. We do rationalize our behaviour but not others.
How much does that explanation cover? Not sure.
I hate people following me too closely when driving. I recently found out that I was following too closely by learning about a 4-5 sec spacing requirement between vehicles on the highway. Up until then, I getting ready to pass slower drivers.
As Cicero said, “Gratitude is not only the greatest of virtues, but the parent of all the others.”
That has always been. Your probably just seeing more publicity for it.
This really annoyed me at my last job. Investors are visiting and everyone is told to dress up, but one woman wears the same pair of faded jeans all week. Another woman regularly parked in slots reserved for an adjacent business although she was not handicapped and in fact did exercise infomercials to earn extra money. Things are much better at my new company.
I agree. Of lately my thought goes to what I was taught and I admit I have not always followed, If you can't say anything nice, don't say it at all. Sweetana3's post Wish some people would follow the rule of not saying something they would not want said to their teenagers in the same tone of voice. I have said that a few times lately too. I think IF a child would have said some of the mean things being said today by you know who and those, I would have stopped the child and explained why that was mean. Also, this entire last few years of bullying talk and teaching to kids, it seems like it is overload with the political world for the worse. DO as I say not as I do is what kids are learning.
My annoyance on this topic: I take DH in for a regular procedure at the hospital about every 3 months. They have several premium parking spaces reserved for compact/hybrid cars. I have a Prius. Even though there are plenty of other spaces, that section is always filled with SUVs. It's such a little thing, but it really gets me--for just the reason of this thread. Rules don't apply. They're not going to get a ticket for parking there, but come on.
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I agree with the children topic. They are seeing some very bad behavior by adults right now, yet we keep on telling them to use their words and not hit, show respect, etc. I recall right after the election hearing a surge of negative towards non-Trump supporters as I walked by signs that children made saying 'be a good winner', 'show kindness', and more about sportsmanship qualities especially when you win.
I don't really see this where I live, but then I live in a fairly Scandanavian area up in Northern Michigan, and social cooperation is stressed pretty heavily!
Where you are, it is just as likely that your shared culture leads to peaceful interactions. Everyone knows The Rules and accepts The Rules as valid.
Here in my diverse city, different cultures coexist and not all vLue the same things. For instance yesterday, a gorgeous cool summer day, I was weeding my garden when two women across the street decided to have a screaming match. These women, their paramours, their children, and their friends and relativeso lead their life on the street. Two weeks ago they got into it also and a crowd gathered, the screaming went on for half an hour, and finally cops came. Eight cop cars pulled up and settled them down.
Middle class people have their shouting matches behind closed doors,and if oursiders can hear even then, they probably doing their fighting in a whisper.
It is accepted in ghetto culture that the street belongs to you, "you" being the person there, on the street. Low level civil disobedience is part of ghetto culture. Actions such as jaywalking (causing cars to stop,p for the pedesteian) and driving a car in the middle of the street, then stopping to let out a passenger/talk to someone on the sidewalk, are common.
These are not The Rules of behavior of the dominant culture, so these actions appear to be self centered. I think they are! But it is also valid to look at these actions as the mindset of a different culture.
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