That's nice to hear, jp1. I'm glad your dad was open to what your mother requested.
I think a lot of men don't have much to their lives but their job for so long, that they haven't even developed any "hobbies", and don't have a clue what to do after retirement. I'm sure it's the ones who've had other interests all along, who do better in retirement. DH doesn't seem to know what to do, except mow the lawn and pull weeds when he's not at work.. I appreciate that, but there's so much more than that that would need done. I remember when he was younger and had time off.......he would get in a bad mood and not have a clue what to do. Gee.........I never run out of things to do!
We all have things that we don't really want to do, but some of us have the discipline to do them anyhow.
DH is still working and will probably work until he drops dead (at work).....since once he starts anything, he can't stop.
I'm torn because I want to encourage him to retire, but after these 4 day weekends, it really scares me. I would probably adjust........but it won't be easy.