I am a bit on the other side, my parents don't need care and my mom ran a senior daycare so she has super planned that they will not need us to care for them as much as possible. However she does need a knee replacement in fall. My kids are grown and I have 35 vacation days built up so I offered to come out. Okay we don't offer in my family, my mom just comes in and does things. She and her sisters nicknamed themselves the B-sisters because they know they take charge and take over anything in their path. I started by offering and then told her I could be just as bossy as she and her sisters are so plan on me coming out for awhile. I am not coming out for weeks, I know she has my dad and her sisters, however I do want to help a little. Geez,