My folks do not want to leave their farmstead. I think this is probably the hardest move because you have become part of the land if you have been there long enough. I know they pray that they will be able to die there.

Speaking of independence, my dad is fighting oxygen as an assistive measure.

This is one reason I can't bring myself to move there--I would feel responsible, and they will not really listen to what I have to say, so its responsibility without any authority to make something happen.