Geila, will the shelter neuter him, too? How much would that cost? I would go that route, as it is so much cheaper, and then take your time and look for a good new vet. You might not like the new one and you would be out a lot of money.

My old vet told me when my kitty had fleas to wash her in the tub each day til they were gone. She hated it but it is much more effective than the wet wipes, and I only had to do it twice, with the medicine.