Again. Always. Sometimes I wish she would just stop talking to my dh.
so, last year dd rescheduled her wedding to the man she was already living with (rescheduled with our blessing) and due to a long back story it resulted in my inlaws being unable to attend (actually, possible, but expensive and very inconvenient, and other things were more important to them and nobody was upset about that but them - in fact, many of us, including the bride, me, dh, and two of dh uncles, were relieved.) for well over a year mil has been making it pretty clear that none of us will ever be forgiven and she is completely heart broken over missing the wedding.
so she calls my husband to ask what our plans are with ds for the day after his wedding (to the girl he is living with) and dh says "we don't expect to see them." And mil says "well, that's how it used to be, but the way kids do things these days weddings don't mean anything."
and I wanted ask dh "so did you say 'true. You should probably skip this one too'?"