ridiculous, I mean not many people want a deadbeat if that is strictly defined as someone who can't hold any job long, and maybe still lives with his mom, especially if one isn't any such deadbeat oneself but knows how to hold a job and earn a living.
Anyone who is that concerned they won't get married at 32 is probably a bit neurotic frankly*. Ok it may be better to have a child younger but that's a bit of a separate issue.
* or it might be cultural, perhaps there are parts of the country where this is more true, rather than just seeming rather ridiculous ...