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    Quote Originally Posted by iris lilies View Post
    Does she want ro reproduce?
    She is on the fence about it. But that activity is off-limits anyway, by her directive.

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    UL, I don’t know why you don’t just go and get the vasectomy. Seems like a perfect solution to your reproductive issues. They can always hook you back up again should you change your mind.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Williamsmith View Post
    UL, I don’t know why you don’t just go and get the vasectomy. Seems like a perfect solution to your reproductive issues. They can always hook you back up again should you change your mind.
    No, they cant always reverse that procedures, not by a long shot.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Williamsmith View Post
    UL, I don’t know why you don’t just go and get the vasectomy. Seems like a perfect solution to your reproductive issues. They can always hook you back up again should you change your mind.
    ED and aphasia are associated with V-secs. I don't want either of those...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ultralight View Post
    ED and aphasia are associated with V-secs. I don't want either of those...
    Johns Hopkins Medicine disputes this on their website but they do say that if you think you will get ED.....then you could talk yourself into it. Given your fear of contracting these ....I guess you are right not to get the procedure.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Williamsmith View Post
    Johns Hopkins Medicine disputes this on their website but they do say that if you think you will get ED.....then you could talk yourself into it. Given your fear of contracting these ....I guess you are right not to get the procedure.
    Link?

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    Well, my ladyfriend will be here tomorrow to spend the long weekend with me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ultralight View Post
    Link?
    Better late than never....

    Refer to “Will vascectomy affect my sex life?” Third paragraph beginning with “Some men....”.

    http://malefertility.jhu.edu/Vasectomy.php

    Oh yeah....enjoy your weekend. She looks like a wonderful person.

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    Looks like another romance has fizzled out...

    And yes, minimalism appears to be a major factor. She said, though interested in minimalism, she certainly was not a minimalist.

    I said: "If minimalism was a religion, I'd be a pastor."

    She said: "If minimalism was a religion, I'd be a Christmas/Easter/Mother's Day Churchgoer."

    There were other reasons -- she'd really like a more "normal" guy who watches sports, drinks beer, eats a more standard American diet, and who has more middle class/suburban lifestyle aspirations.

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    Ouch, I'm sure that stings, but always better to know about these differences earlier rather than later. Good for you for continuing to get out there and mingle..

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