pinktoe, no harm done or meant. His life issues now I am hands off and do nothing not medical, money, appointments, bills, food. What I do give is a happy safe solid roof over his head. I live life now as if I die today, he needs to continue and he will do fine. Sometime it takes as huge event to change someone. Actually this week University of Michigan Depression Center gave him the best news of a life time that he is headed in the right direction so to say.
So all is great and wonderful