My impression of what your assessment is:

”I consider the following relationships lopsided because one person brings far more of the things I consider valuable to the table than the other person does.”

True? That is all about you and nothing about them.

here is what makes a relationship work:
person A values set X in a partner
person B values set Y in a partner
the intersection of sets Xand Y can be the empty set, or they can be identical. The important thing is that person B brings enough of set X to satisfy person A, and person A brings enough of set Y to satisfy person B.

it is important that you come to understand that, so that if a beautiful, successful, atheist, woman of color without stuff or kids ever shows interest in you, you can accept that you might actually be what she is looking for. Because currently, I predict you would shoot yourself in the foot.