Well, we now know that ultralite is not opposed to ALL recreational drugs.
but i’m With ya on that one.
also, In my experience, most immigrants make good food. Some of the best meals I ever ate were the potlucks at international women’s group when I was in my 20s! So, if you can appreciate it - bonus. Find a culture that more closely matches yours!
Btw, I wasn’t saying you wouldn’t love your wife if you had one, just that you seem more the “fondness and companionship” type (with sex) where you one day are surprised by loving this person, as opposed to the “marry the person you can’t live without” type.
Right - driven by a sense of honor, not by a deep seated need to protect and care for the single most important person in your world (not mocking or criticizing you) “to me this is how a person acts...” is not the same as “I cannot be happy if you are unhappy.” Love for you is more weighted toward the social contract end - for me it’s more weighted toward the irrational, impulsive end. I don’t think either of us would trade.
also, I was serious about the food. Many people put “good cook” in their desirables list. But the definition of “good” varies.
Doing the right thing, sure, that matters.
But an ex of mine, who I was with three years,had a surgery and had to be off work recovering for 2 solid weeks. She could not lift anything or bend all the way over. She could not drive. She just had to sit around healing, resting, and taking her meds.
I met her at the hospital at 6am. Her sister brought her there. I stayed with her through the processing in and until they put her under.
I was there when she woke up. I spent each day after her surgery at her house -- after work, on the weekends. I took care of her dogs, I cooked for her, timed her meds, and so on.
I did these things because I loved her deeply. I wanted to help her get better. I wanted to hold her so close to me that I could take on some of the pain and discomfort so she did not have to feel it.
Oh yeah! I love ethnic food of the home cooked variety. This is why I go to the Northland area every weekend! Somali, Kenyan, Nepali, Nigerian, South Indian, etc. Love this stuff. If I married a woman who cooked any of these cuisines well I'd do the dishes, vacuum the apartment, and scrub the bathroom. haha
Balance of labor!
And you broke up because?
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