That is why I keep my assets consolidated with one CU institution and we review every year at least. i go to the same accountant every year to do my taxes, maintain my financial records and review any changes. I kept my will very simple to two children equally and their spouses and the grandchild.
Nothing elaborate, just very simple. No debts.
I even have both kids on my iPhone as my emergency contacts in case I am unable to make decisions and my neighbours and my kids have each other's phone contacts.
I keep monitoring these types of threads to ensure that I am not overlooking anything.