Originally Posted by
Chicken lady
There have been a couple of times when she has gained some weight and told me, and I have cheered for her, but she has never given me this much detail about what is going on with her food-wise, so I wasn’t sure if I should respond to that by asking further. like, when a friend tells you all about their new plan to train for a marathon, or make a quilt, or eat better, and then you see them a couple days later, you ask “how’s the (training, quilt, vegetable challenge) going? Because it shows that you care about them. But maybe I will just wait for her to tell me how it’s going. I don’t want her to feel like I am one more person trying to “fix” her.