Originally Posted by
iris lilies
I am confused about what makes you mad. Without actually reading those old threads,
I would have bet money that you had decided not to rent from her,
before this funeral, so it isnt that it was important to you to rent this place. Do you think she should have called you anyway? If so, are you SURE she knew you were interested in this house?
Are you expecting her to be overcome with grief and not be able to muster thoughts about anything other than her dead father? If so, that isnt realistic.
OP It seems to me that you are easily upset by the actions of others and you like getting mad at them.
That is ok, you do you, do what you enjoy. But this seems like a very odd thng to be mad at her about since you did NOT want this house. If you are getting mad at her on the behalf of her father,
I would say consider the excellent idea �� of boundaries. This isnt your circus nor your monkeys.