Quote Originally Posted by Teacher Terry View Post
Some families only know how to function with drama. That is very sad.

I mentioned this situation to my mom on the phone, we have the opposite issue of trying to have no emotions! I was barely done with my 2 sentences of what happened when my mom interrupted to say 'you just have to ignore it'. Well I think that SIL gets a few minutes of having an emotion after all, and since I have been told this before I feel for him (not by a family member but still it affected me). I felt that very familiar sense of not being okay if I felt anything. My sister has been dealing with severe anxiety the last year and is seeing some correlation to our family issue, but unless she is in crisis she does not want to talk about it. We are just as incapable of those 'what do you need' conversations as the drama family.