Originally Posted by
Zoe Girl
So I edited my stuff to get out of the story as much.
Basically how do we deal with power and control, when we feel on the receiving end, when we catch ourselves needing a lot of control. Etc. I can't really prove anything about my situation, I can only talk about how it affected me. Maybe he didn't mean it that way, maybe he is totally unconscious about it? Who knows, but I was looking for a universal element I think, the combination of times when we are responsible and accountable but have no power in decisions. Sometimes we can't just leave, or get out as quickly as we want. I have learned the only way to change it is to simply leave, and I am working my rear off to do that. Meanwhile it has had an affect on me of course. It is REALLY good to name it clearly.