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    Keep in mind this woman is probably almost 300 lbs. and has untold numbers of kids.
    Again, very big gal with kids.
    Wow. Where on earth do you get these ideas?

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    Kids are a problem for boy men who want to be the pampered baby.

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    Quote Originally Posted by herbgeek View Post
    Wow. Where on earth do you get these ideas?
    They show photos.

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    Quote Originally Posted by herbgeek View Post
    And I don't get why this is a problem:



    So this is a woman who is not expecting you to rescue you her financially, and takes her obligations to work and her family seriously. So she needs to secure a sitter a week ahead of time, how is this a problem?
    Can you add? Yes? Okay. Good. Add up the time she is sleeping, the time she is working, the time she is doing childcare for her kid, the time she is doing all the other haftas.

    Okay, can you subtract? Yes? Good. Subtract that from 168 (the total hours in a week).

    This woman has no time to form a relationship, let alone a partnership.

    You think it is reasonable for her to expect a guy who has the time for a relationship and partnership to even bother with her knowing this math?

    Come on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by herbgeek View Post
    Wow. Where on earth do you get these ideas?
    They have 5-10 pictures of themselves posted. That is where I am getting this from.

    I am not against big gals finding love and happiness. I want them to! More power to them. But being really, really big means a woman is probably going to be drawing from a numerically smaller pool of men.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yppej View Post
    Kids are a problem for boy men who want to be the pampered baby.
    I don't understand. Can you explain more?

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    Quote Originally Posted by iris lilies View Post
    They show photos.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yppej View Post
    Kids are a problem for boy men who want to be the pampered baby.
    Oh please. I wouldnt be able to stand dating someone with a bunch of children because I want an adult relationship, not a child centric relationship. Children suck up resources like crazy. Personally, I think it is dumb for custodial parents of small children to “date” but whatevah, they must have a whole lot more time than I think they have. Their business, mot mine.

    Once the kids get to be 8-9-10 ish, that is do able. But a houseful of them? Shudder.

    In the singles group where I met DH there was one woman who joined in with 5 small children. She hooked up with a guy who had 1 child. Fairly soon after, they brought the brood to a singles group picnic and when they left, they left one of the kids behind mistakenly. No shit, a litter is hard to track.

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    This one is a little more reasonable:

    "I'm intrigued by intelligence. (Not that I know everything.)
    I welcome new things and am always open to new experiences. That is what life is all about.
    I think communication, respect, honesty, laughter, loyalty and learning from one another are key parts to a relationship.
    I want to be able to be myself at all times, without judgement. I want the same for you. (I won't give you my representative, please don't give me yours.)
    I do not discriminate.
    Beards are a bonus!"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yppej View Post
    Kids are a problem for boy men who want to be the pampered baby.
    This sounds like something a bitter and/or relationship-damaged single mom would say. I am not saying that is what you are, I am just saying that is what it sounds like.

    Some men just aren't parental. Some men prefer to invest their resources and emotions into their partner, instead of kids (hers or theirs).

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