yea shame people for their moral transgressions if that's your thing (but just make sure they are actually substantial you know - if you want to use shame for social control save it for the big things). But fat isn't a moral crime, not in my universe.I think there’s a real difference between shaming somebody over their weight or crooked teeth or lack of education and being ashamed of doing something bad.
as for shaming a fat person not even because it's causing them health problems (for which shame doesn't seem a good response, but which can be a concern but only in some cases aka one is prone to knee problems or had pre-diabetes etc.) but because of how they look. f off.
yea as women we know our duty is too look good for men, but we may not care about men enough to bother most of the time, because the vast majority of the time men frankly aren't worth the trouble. I've always been somewhat attractive, I've never been stunning, I've usually especially when younger when it was more necessary to do so played it down, I always loathed the fact that my worth would be judged by men judging my appearance. So that shame that just objectifies women's bodies won't work, in fact it's just as likely to make some women want to eat a whole cake! ha!