I know! It is so simple for me to do X activity, alone.
when I add even one person, details get changed, times reworked, and then there is the endless communication about how/where/when. If there is more than one person, then the entire adtivity morphs into something very different.
I just wanna go do X.
Me being a Luddite and not using my cell phone throws a wrench in the game because when they say “oh hey, just call me when you are ten minutes away” it doesn't work, nor does not locking down exact plans where to meet. I dont have mobile phone, cannot communicate when away feom my landline.