Interesting line of thought.
for me, first knee jerk stream of thought:
living according to my values
not having to act in ways that are unnatural/accommodate to the beliefs and desires of others
minimizing unwanted demands
this is probably why I have so few friends. Friends are not simple.
using my resources (time, money, energy) in ways that I feel give me a high rate of return personally (enjoyment, satisfaction, feelings of success and accomplishment... interestingly “happiness” came up as a secondary and I went back and checked it against the list - it’s a secondary effect.
minimal engagement with mainstream culture.
more to think about.