Originally Posted by
SteveinMN
Then don't.
Seriously, I thought dating was fun (most of the time) but it also is an emotional commitment to keeping one's eyes open for potential partners, responding to requests to meet, sometimes being rejected, actually going on dates (nice clothes, know where to go, putting your best foot forward at least for that time period), etc.
But if it's not for you right now, it's not for you. It's not a decision you have to chisel into stone. For what it's worth, one of the things that makes DW's and my relationship work is that each of us had our own fulfilling lives before we met. We could have gone for years longer without a LTR/partner (and both of us preferred that to being with just anyone for the sake of being part of a couple). We didn't feel "incomplete" or odd for being single and our social circles were not dependent on being part of a couple. We simply found life was more fun with each other than without so we became partners. Sometimes it happens when you're not looking that thoroughly.