When my 3 boys were older teens I warned them that if they created kids they would not be living with me or I wouldn’t be raising them. My one son who could be trouble said “You would if it was a girl.” I said remember those foster kids without homes-that’s where the kids will be. Luckily no one had any kids they couldn’t take care of. I love my kids but no way am I spending my golden years raising kids again.