I asked approximately 20 single moms The Bomb Shelter question. A few refused to answer -- which I was fine with. A couple with what they claimed were horrible exes said they would save the new husband. One crazy woman said she would let both men in and then she would get blowed up by the rooskies. I did not believe her.
Most women say they would save their baby-daddy (or daddies).
And in many ways, it makes sense for them to do so. But more to the point: The emotions for the baby-daddy are strong!
I would like someone to ask single dads this question!