UL, everyone has their own boundaries, but that behavior is definitely sexual harassment and a case could be made for assault based on the clip board incident. At minimum I would speak to her.
i unconsciously avoid assault by avoiding time in unsafe situations and not associating with the sort of people who assault people. I had a referral from my primary care physician one time and I went back to him and told him that I needed another referral because while the doctor had not done anything specifically objectionable, there had been something about his manner that made me feel uncomfortable and that was not acceptable to me. The second referral was excellent.
clipboard lady would have been way past my red lines.