Originally Posted by Float On
Let's think about this. Let's say I met a woman I really like, but who was into running marathons.
Following your train of thought: "I don't want to date her because she is a runner and I am not a runner. So she will probably make me run laps with her. That ain't happenin', sistah!"
But my train of thought is this: "I am open to dating a woman who is a runner of marathons. If she wants me to run laps with her I will simply decline. Though I will cheer her on and support her marathon running."
In my train of thought I don't worry about her judging me or "making" me do something. Why? Self-confidence.
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