Originally Posted by
Chicken lady
lets imagine that same person in that same situation. Except, let’s imagine that she had a physically abusive boyfriend whom she ditched. And then got involved with a guy who was controlling and verbally abusive, as were his friends. Now she’s not getting hit, which one could argue is an improvement, but she’s getting put down and discouraged at every turn, which is causing depression and low self esteem. Making it harder and harder to hold it together. She doesn’t see any way out and no one sees what is happening to her, or they dismiss it, or don’t think it’s that bad. One day she just can’t face it anymore and kills herself. Everyone says “I don’t understand. Her life was so great.”