A friendship -- a looooooong time -- friendship is in jeopardy now because of a disagreement about identity politics.

The whole Kavanugh thing is still wreaking havoc.

A friend of mine thinks that sexism is so pervasive that she is literally suffering.

But to me, she herself is actually the evidence that sexism is fading out fast.

She is 33 and in a management position at a huge international corporation where some of her underlings are straight white men. She makes about $90k.

She owns her own nice house in a "gayborhood" and owns her own new car.

She has two bachelor degrees (Spanish and Pharm Sales). She also has an MBA. She got scholarships!

She teaches part-time for Kaplan (the testing company).

She travels, plays in softball leagues, goes out dancing with her "gay harem," dates men as she pleases, and is on the board of a non-profit.

I fail to see the oppression.