[QUOTE=Gardnr;313094]I consider my children to be responsible adults. They're in their 30s, and they work and have their own homes/apartments. if I left them a short list of reminders for when they came up here for an overnight, I would not be concerned at all. Now I do have some members of my family I would say no to, but my kids have shared a lot of time with us up here so far, and if by chance they came up for an overnight, I wouldn't deny them it. It's not a big deal to me as long as they don't crap in the crapper.