Gaslighting

[Teacher Terry]

IZl, great advice! I think G misinterpreted who the bad guy is.

[Gardnr]

IZl, great advice! I think G misinterpreted who the bad guy is.

She clearly states that the SO is the manipulator. What did I miss?

[iris lily]

She clearly states that the SO is the manipulator. What did I miss?

I interpretted this to be the SO of her daughter. OP has a son in law who gaslights, or lies.

[Teacher Terry]

G, I thought you think it’s the posters SO but it’s her daughter’s.

[frugal-one]

My son, his SO and their grandchild are involved. What I think is happening is that son is being influenced by SO to get rid of us (his only family). I have heard of women whose men alienate them from family but in this case it is the male being brainwashed to do so. The gaslighting is being done by my son at the direction of SO. The therapist picked up on the gaslighting. I never heard the term before.

[iris lilies]

My son, his SO and their grandchild are involved. What I think is happening is that son is being influenced by SO to get rid of us (his only family). I have heard of women whose men alienate them from family but in this case it is the male being brainwashed to do so. The gaslighting is being done by my son at the direction of SO. The therapist picked up on the gaslighting. I never heard the term before.

To be clear, the child in the picture is your great grandchild?

[Teacher Terry]

My brothers wife went on a campaign to get rid of his family shortly after they married. She would lie to him and say that we said terrible things to her when we didn’t. He believed her. Eventually we didn’t see him for about 20 years until they divorced. I really feel for you.

[frugal-one]

My brothers wife went on a campaign to get rid of his family shortly after they married. She would lie to him and say that we said terrible things to her when we didn’t. He believed her. Eventually we didn’t see him for about 20 years until they divorced. I really feel for you.

This is exactly what is happening. Son's SO and my grandchild are involved.

[iris lilies]

This is exactly what is happening. Son's SO and my grandchild are involved.

How old is your grandchild? How long have they been together? (not married?) Why arent they married?

[Teacher Terry]

My parents barely knew there grandchild from him. Thankfully they had my kids. By the time he came back my dad was dead. We tried so hard to get along with that bitch but in the end she won. I am so sorry this is happening to you.