"However in the middle of it all I did get a new job so I haven't been in bad shape everywhere."
Absolutely!! You did what I have had much trouble doing, and I will never stop being impressed by how you took back control of your life and achieved a great resolution to a really bad situation. And you never fell into any kind of victim role, even though it would have been easier to do that.
That is why I am really impressed by how you went out in the midst of a breakdown and found yourself a great new job. Very heroic, in my book.