Argh, okay the friend that annoyed me (and it was just annoyance) has not answered or contacted me at all in about a week? I texted her last Tuesday because I was going to a meditation closer to her. She answered. Then I answered the next day. Meanwhile nothing, I know she is preparing for a surgery and serious decluttering. I did text one time to just see how she was doing and have had no response at all.
So now I am at the point I would normally check in with any friend. However I think that would not be a good idea. Although I am concerned I am also tired of reaching out and being misunderstood that it somehow about my neediness.